Q: Hi this is kind of off topic question... But can anyone guide ke how to deal with your mother and father in law after child birth. In my case, my in laws are just coming in my room to check if baby is awake or sleeping. If sleeping they will go back from the door, if awake they will play with him for 15-20min then will go back. My mil is not taking part in baby's cleaning, bathing, routine nothing. No doubt she is providing me food but wo bhi bhech bhech me suna deti hain. Father in law bhi mother in law ko bechara show kr rhe sbke samne k wo toh kitchen se h free nai hoti. FYI we are just 4 members in family mil fil husband nd me who eats food Baby toh bm pe hai. Pura din koi mere ps baithta nahi, baby ko pkdta nahi. Agr kehkr pkda du toh they behave like k jbrdsti pkd kr baithe hain. Raat ko jb muje hota hai k ab baby ki routine bnau aur wo so jaye. Tb mil a jati hain kbhi 11 kbhi 12 bje k jag raha hai to uchi uchi usse batein krne lg jate haim, wo active ho jata hai then mere ps usey active chodkr sb so jate. Mil ek raat bhi mere ps nai soyi. Kya main overthink kr rqhi hu ya ye sb sch me ajib hai?