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  • Hi mommies. I'm in my mom's place for delivery as it is the process here. Mine was emergency c sec. My mom took care of the baby so well for the first 7 days. Then I use to take care of the baby along with my mother. After 15 days my mom is saying that she cant get up at night and I have to take care of him alone. My baby gets fussy at night. He wont sleep at night. Even during the day I take care of him. My just takes care of him for 2 hours and tells everyone she is so tired of taking care. I was ok even with everything. Now I have back pain and stitch pain. When I say its paining she laughs as if I'm saying a joke. I dont know what to say. If I ask anyone they just simply say its your baby you have to take care. I'm literally crying daily. If I ask her she simply says I took care of the baby alone for first 3 days you didnt even care. Its emotionally draining coz I was in post operative ward. What can I do for that. My friends are not married and they too cant understand my pain. Totally exhausted. ?? arrow

Depression in Women Post Delivery

5 years ago

Asked by Mother of 20 Days Old Baby

Q: Hi mommies. I'm in my mom's place for delivery as it is the process here. Mine was emergency c sec. My mom took care of the baby so well for the first 7 days. Then I use to take care of the baby along with my mother. After 15 days my mom is saying that she cant get up at night and I have to take care of him alone. My baby gets fussy at night. He wont sleep at night. Even during the day I take care of him. My just takes care of him for 2 hours and tells everyone she is so tired of taking care. I was ok even with everything. Now I have back pain and stitch pain. When I say its paining she laughs as if I'm saying a joke. I dont know what to say. If I ask anyone they just simply say its your baby you have to take care. I'm literally crying daily. If I ask her she simply says I took care of the baby alone for first 3 days you didnt even care. Its emotionally draining coz I was in post operative ward. What can I do for that. My friends are not married and they too cant understand my pain. Totally exhausted. ??

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Mother of 2 Years Old Baby
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A: @AnonymousUser hey please dont cry. I took care pf baby alone. Aap househelp lo for other works and baby ki care khud kro. Dekho roge na sir weak ho jayega. Main bht roi hu bht jyada. Coz mera emergency hua tha and hemoglobin bht down tha. Medecine le ni pa ri thi and food meri MIL ne thk se khane ni diya. Meri mom lati thi mere lie but fir maine unhe 10 days me mana kr diya coz unki health bht down tehti h. Plz ro ni, remember one thing only, this time will pass soon. Apne baby ko dekho, jiske lie 9 months itna liya h wo apke pas h. Aap if exclusive feed krate ho to baby ko apko need ni uthne ki jaise baby soe aap bhi so jao. Intitially ni aayegi neend but believe me rest milta h. If bottle feed de rhe ho i mena formula milk to 5-6 bottles le lo and meng evwning ek bar hi kiya kro sterlize. Thermal bottle bhi le lo for warm water pura din chal jata h. Wipes le lijiye, baby ko 24 hours diaper pr rakho. Plz dont use nappies bcoz baby k lie bhi achcha ji if wet rhe to. And apke lie bar bar uthna to bilkul achcha ni. Sari jarurat ki chije apke pas bed pr hi rkho so that kam se kam uthna pade. Jab washeoom k lie utho to dhyan krke baki k kaam kr lo. Swing le lo so that baby jab night me fussy ho to aap sula sko bina trouble h. If afford kr akte ho to automatic swing le lo. Bht help milti h. Apna khayal rkho, jitne positive rhoge utna jldi recover kroge. Apne bad expiriences se bata ri hu dear. Dont expect and fir apko rona nai aayega. Meri mil bikul achchi ni. But meri mom bht bht bhr bht achchi h. Maine bht roi hu and bht chali hu and kama kiya h 10 day se. Kapde shona baby k nappies dhona. Baby k lie milk banana , bottles sterlixe krma. Kbhi kbhi khud k lie kuch bana k khana coz milk to boiled khana de deti thi wo bhi thosa sa. Ya fir bht apicy. Mujhe dono hi ni khane the. Plz take care Be happy apka baby apke pas h. ... See more
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Mother of 2 Years Old Baby
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A: @AnonymousUser it your mother is not caring of you and your baby. If she is not ready to understand your pain then just leave. Ye rituals new mom ko help krne k lie bane the because inlaws ni krte the care to parents ko krni padti thi. Apke yaha situation ulti h then jist leave. ... See more

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