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Labour usually announces itself through regular contractions that get stronger and closer together, a show, or your waters breaking. Some signs, like the baby dropping or a burst of energy, can come days or weeks earlier. Go to hospital immediately if your waters break, if you have any bleeding, if contractions start before 37 weeks, or if your baby's movements change.
Regularity is what separates labour from practice contractions. Braxton Hicks are irregular and settle. Labour contractions come in a rhythm and get stronger.
Before 37 weeks, any regular tightening is an emergency until proven otherwise. Call your hospital rather than waiting to see if it settles.
If your waters break, call your hospital straight away, even if you have no contractions. Note the time, colour and smell.
A change in your baby's movements at any stage needs same-day assessment. Do not wait for labour to start, and do not try to wake the baby first.
Ask your hospital for their own rule on when to come in, because distance, traffic, a previous caesarean or a previous fast labour all change the answer.
Your baby's head settles lower into the pelvis. You may notice easier breathing, less heartburn, more pelvic pressure, and needing to urinate more often.
Timing: in a first pregnancy this often happens two to four weeks before labour. In later pregnancies it may not happen until labour begins. It is not a reliable countdown.
The plug of mucus sealing the cervix comes away, either in one piece or gradually, often tinged pink or brown with a little blood.
Timing: anywhere from a few days to a few hours before labour. Some women never notice it.
ЁЯЪй A blood-streaked mucus show is normal. Fresh red bleeding, or anything soaking a pad, is not. Bleeding needs immediate assessment, not a wait-and-see.
The defining sign. Regularity and progression are what matter, not how strong the first ones feel.
Real labour contractions:
Come at regular intervals, and the gaps get shorter
Get longer and stronger over time
Do not settle with rest, a change of position or a warm bath
Often start in the back and wrap around to the front
Make it hard to talk through them as they build
Time them: note when each one starts and how long it lasts. Apps help, but a pen and paper works.
Some babies face your spine, which puts the hardest pressure on your lower back. This is often called back labour, and the pain comes in waves rather than staying constant.
ЁЯЪй Back pain that comes and goes in a rhythm before 37 weeks is one of the most commonly missed signs of preterm labour, because it gets dismissed as an ordinary bad back. Call your hospital.
Either a sudden gush or a slow, persistent trickle you cannot control. It differs from urine because it keeps coming and does not smell like urine.
What to do immediately:
Note the time
Note the colour. Clear or slightly pink is usual
Note the smell. It should not smell unpleasant
Put on a pad, not a tampon
Call your hospital straight away, even with no contractions
ЁЯЪй Go in urgently if the fluid is green, brown or foul-smelling, if there is bleeding, if it happens before 37 weeks, or if you feel anything in the vagina after your waters break. That last one is rare but is an emergency, so call an ambulance and, if you can, get onto your hands and knees with your chest down while you wait.
Your pelvic joints soften and your ligaments relax in preparation for birth. You may feel more pressure low down, or a heavier, more mobile sensation in the pelvis.
Some women also notice mild diarrhoea or loose stools in the day or two before labour, which is normal.
Many women describe a sudden urge to clean, organise and prepare, often called nesting. Others feel unusually tired and heavy instead. Both are normal, and neither reliably predicts timing.
Do not exhaust yourself on a cleaning spree at 39 weeks. If the energy arrives, use some of it to check your hospital bag and rest with the remainder.
Braxton Hicks (false labour) | Real labour | |
|---|---|---|
Pattern | Irregular, unpredictable | Regular, with shortening gaps |
Over time | Stay the same or fade | Get longer, stronger, closer |
Position change | Settle with rest, walking or a warm bath | Do not settle |
Pain location | Usually front of the abdomen | Often starts in the back, wraps to the front |
Intensity | Tightening rather than pain | Increasingly painful |
Other signs | None | Show, waters breaking, pressure |
The simplest test: change what you are doing. Walk if you were resting, or rest if you were active. Braxton Hicks usually stop. Labour does not.
Ask your hospital for their own rule at your next appointment, and write it down. The general guidance below varies considerably depending on your situation.
A common general guide for a first labour: contractions about 5 minutes apart, each lasting about 1 minute, continuing for 1 hour.
Go in sooner than that if:
Your waters have broken, at any stage
This is not your first baby, since later labours are often faster
Your previous labour was fast
You have had a caesarean before
You live far from the hospital, or traffic is unpredictable. In Indian cities a 20-minute route can become an hour without warning, so build in a margin
You have been told your pregnancy is high risk, or you are expecting twins
You have tested positive for group B streptococcus
You are frightened or unsure. That is a valid reason on its own
ЁЯЪй Go immediately, whatever your contraction pattern, for:
Any bleeding
Waters that are green, brown or foul-smelling
Contractions before 37 weeks
Reduced or changed baby movements
Severe headache with visual changes, pain under the ribs, or sudden swelling of the face and hands
Constant, severe abdominal pain that does not come and go
Fever
Fainting, or heavy dizziness
A fall or blow to the abdomen
This is the sign most often forgotten once women start focusing on contractions.
Your baby should keep moving as usual right up to and through early labour. A reduction or change in the pattern needs same-day assessment, whatever else is happening.
Do not wait until morning
Do not try to wake the baby first with cold drinks, sugar or lying down. These waste time
Do not accept "the baby has run out of room." Reduced movement is not caused by lack of space
Before 37 weeks, these need a call to your hospital straight away, not a wait-and-see:
Regular tightening or cramping, even if mild
Low backache that comes in waves
Pelvic pressure, as though the baby is pushing down
Period-like cramps
A change or increase in vaginal discharge, or a watery leak
Any bleeding
Preterm labour is often subtle and easily dismissed. Being checked and sent home is a good outcome, not a wasted trip.
If your hospital has told you to stay home for now:
Rest between contractions, especially at night. You will need the energy
Eat light food and keep sipping fluids
Move, change position, and try a warm shower for comfort
Time your contractions, but not obsessively
Have your bag, records and transport ready
Keep someone with you
Call back if anything changes, if you are worried, or if the pattern shifts
Save the numbers now: your hospital's labour ward, your doctor, and the ambulance services 102 and 108
Keep your antenatal records with you at all times from 36 weeks
Have your bag packed by 36 weeks
Know the route and the travel time at different times of day, plus a backup plan
Agree who is taking you, and a second option
Tell one family member the warning signs, so someone else recognises them
Do not drive yourself if you have bleeding, severe pain, visual changes or dizziness
What are the first signs of labour?
Usually regular contractions that get stronger and closer together, a show, or your waters breaking. Lightening and nesting energy can come days or weeks earlier.
How do I know if my contractions are real?
Real contractions come in a rhythm, get longer and stronger, and do not settle when you change position or rest. Braxton Hicks are irregular and usually stop.
My waters broke but I have no contractions. What should I do?
Call your hospital straight away. Note the time, colour and smell of the fluid, use a pad rather than a tampon, and follow their instructions.
How long after a show does labour start?
Anywhere from a few hours to a few days. A show alone is not a reason to go in, but any actual bleeding is.
When exactly should I leave for the hospital?
Ask your own hospital for their rule. A common guide for a first labour is contractions five minutes apart, lasting a minute, for an hour. Go sooner if your waters have broken, this is not your first baby, you live far away, or you have any warning sign.
Is back pain a sign of labour?
It can be, especially if it comes in waves. Before 37 weeks, rhythmic back pain should be treated as possible preterm labour and reported immediately.
Can labour start without contractions?
It can begin with your waters breaking, or with a show, before contractions establish. Waters breaking always warrants a call to your hospital.
What if I go in and it is a false alarm?
That is a good outcome, not a wasted trip. Maternity units expect it, and being assessed and sent home is exactly what should happen.
Does the baby move less when labour is near?
No. Your baby should keep moving as usual. Any reduction or change needs same-day assessment, whatever stage you are at.
Labour usually announces itself through contractions that come in a rhythm and keep building, and the simplest test is that real labour does not settle when you rest or change position. Everything else on the list can arrive days or weeks ahead. What matters more than identifying the exact sign is knowing the four situations that mean going in immediately: waters breaking, any bleeding, contractions before 37 weeks, and any change in your baby's movements. Save your hospital's number today, and ask them for their own rule on when to come in.
Sources
World Health Organization, recommendations on intrapartum care for a positive childbirth experience
American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, how to tell when labour begins, and preterm labour and birth
Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists, reduced fetal movements, and prelabour rupture of membranes
National Institute for Health and Care Excellence, intrapartum care and preterm labour and birth
NHS, signs that labour has begun
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, urgent maternal warning signs
Federation of Obstetric and Gynaecological Societies of India, intrapartum care recommendations
This article is for general information and is not a substitute for medical advice. Go to hospital immediately if your waters break, you have any bleeding, contractions start before 37 weeks, or your baby's movements change.
This content is for informational purposes only and should not replace professional medical advice. Consult with a physician or other health care professional if you have any concerns or questions about your health. If you rely on the information provided here, you do so solely at your own risk.

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