Q: Hi mommies. I need a advice. I will be completing my 14 weeks soon. I was on leave from office since November. As this was my IVF pregnancy after 6 years of trying. And I also had 1 early miscarriage when we conceived naturally. For my current IVF pregnancy, all reports are normal and I am feeling strong from inside as well. But still i took 3 months bed rest. Now, I want to go back to my office. As i am a researcher in an educational institution I have a very relaxed job. But my in laws are totally against this. I tried to convince them that doctor has also said that no issues in travelling to office. But they aren't understanding. I am locked in house since last 3 months. I feel sad all the time. My in laws have always controlled my life. Since my marriage i was supposed to live with them and my husband was working in other city and used to visit us on weekends. We never lived together. I was not allowed to work. After 4 years of marriage I had managed convince them for this job. I am extremely happy to welcome this baby. He/ She would be my world. but I am thinking my in laws will again make me a homemaker. I don't want to lose my dreams. As i was a meritorious child since childhood. I feel sad that I couldn't do anything in life. How can I convince them?

A: @s right now i think u should do what is best for u and ur baby..balance it out with ur in laws..i m sure they wish the best for u...may be this is their way of showing concern....take leave...u can work after u hv ur child...as motherhood is imp as well...since u r meritorious one u can handle the job..tc...God bless. Read More

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